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asyik asyik permasalahan rumahtangga je.

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hoi? motif kau masih tersadai disitu?

nampaknya kau pasrah dengan mode psychologist ai lah

tudiah vogue ya amat

* sambil betul betulkan kedudukan spek mata baru*

shall we start?

kekadang ada pasangan yang dah putus, tetap feeling nak rapatkan saf. kau perasan tak?

nah maksudnya si dia aplikasi konsep zaiton sameon [ hint: menaruh harapan] terhadap kau.

kalau kau pun masih ada sisa cinta untuknya u probably is interested to know when is it that your ex gf wants u back in her life.

what are the signs?

sebagai langkah awal, keep an eye out for the go-ahead signs so that all your work is paying off. sang ex pun kalau masih berkenan dengan kamu, will throw off signs for you to press further.

signs. signs. signs.

makanya, be attentive !!

1) she keeps in touch with u

if she does so, it is an indication that she hasn’t fully let go of your relationship

keeping in touch means, she keeps texting u, call u, sending emails * ni tak termasuk email forward ye, AWAS jangan feeling lebih — mateila konsep eid sangat, hari hari forward email apa tatau.. lalala *, or whatever

she is doing that for a reason , that is to be around you, yknow just in case.

just in case it does not work with the new girl

or just in case, she has not find anyone better than u

even better, she wants to see you FACE TO FACE.

walaupun alasan nya, jumpa sebagai rakan biasa, a friendly lunch together, groceries shopping kat tesco, apatah lagi teman dia beli lingerie. kan? motif ajak kau . dahlah kau horny

okei. tiber.

it just goes to show one thing : she is stoking old fires the 2 of u used to share

but please bear in mind, this should be your consideration after u have gone through a period of non-contact, contohnya selepas 3 bulan takde kontek langsung tibe je dia rancak dan galak mengontek kau

bukan baru semalam kau putus, lusa dia kontek kau ye. walhal in between those dates, kamu masih bertemu, meluah perasaan bagai

takde,takde.

lagipula, apabila langkah mengontek kamu adalah cobaan dari si dia. It is a really good sign that she’s still mulling over the idea of dating u again !!

sekiranya sang ex tak kontek kontek kamu immediately after the break up, don’t get upset. dia mungkin ambil masa untuk berfikir, nak mententeramkan raga nya, nak evaluate semula whether it is worth it to get back to u and stuff. she may also feels awkward around u. yela dah selama ni bugil je depan kau, tiber nak tengok muka kau pun dah payah semenjak break up tu ye. rather than panggil u ’sayang’ , dia kena sebut nama kamu pulak. tsk

ganjil okay !

moreover she does not miss u just yet, apatah lagi jika kamu asyik mengendeng je merayu dia kembali ke pangkuan kamu. meluat ada lah

so keep your cool and pride lah ! jangan gelojoh.

another situation is, bila si dia dah ada gf baru ( or new bf), but still contacting u,  odds are you’ve got a very good shot at winning her back.

mungkin dia dah kurang kan jumlah mesej, call pun sebulan sekali kalau ingat, email pun yang forward belaka, but the thing that matter is she stills keep in touch. she is doing it on purpose ( mengurangkan kontek kamu) that is to avoid interference with her current relationship.

but still, the fact that she’s  reaching out for you is a tremendous sign.

pose mesra dengan current gf tapi tetap KONTEK kamu

motif?

sebenarya what she is doing is taking the risks on her current relationship for the chance to see or speak with you.

If she were fully committed to this other person, she wouldn’t be talking to you at all, yes?

2) she keeps bringing up your past relationship

it would be an obvious indication that an ex gf has not completely let go of u if she constantly brings up the history you shared together.

walaupun dia yang putuskan kamu, talking about the old relationship is a sure sign she’s still considering what it would be like to date you again. nampak sangat kan HATI dia tu tak tetap lagi.

It is a great sign of weakness, uols. .

bayangkan, dah lah dia dah ade gf baru, tapi asyik asyik ada sesi imbau masa lampau ngan kamu

contohnya bila dia ke ikea bersama gf baru, sempat lagi text kamu bagitau betapa dia rindu saat korang bersama ngecheck dekorasi kat ikea dulu

kan?

SO OBVIOUS ya’ll.

the actual fact is, when she does this, she is looking for some reaction from u. dia nak pastikan lah sama ada you are still into her as she is into u. kalau dia mesej/call / email kamu tak reti reti nak respond, she is definitely going to withdraw.

sekali kau tak balas balas sebab kau outstation kat uganda for a month.

nanges

terus pose syahdu tepi tingkap kan?

…. uols, lupe pakai spender ek?

That’s why it’s important to recognize this as one of the signs your ex wants you back.

she is playing a game with u , kau apa lagi kan, konsep pucuk dicita ulam mendatang lah, roll your sleeve up bebeh !

allow your ex to convince herself that you’re as committed as she is to getting back together. You do this by making everything she brings up just as special as she remembers it.

kau tanya lah pasangan yang on-off je tu, konsep 8 tahun tapi tak solid, 2 tahun putus, pastu nyambung, pastu putus kijap, nyambung lagik

ramai je konsep cemtu kan?

angkat tangan sapa terasa?

zasss !

kau nak tau kenapa they keep coming back to each others’ arms walau dah berbakul makian cercaan dan seksaan?

because they cherish the past.

take advantage of this opportunity by making her feel comfortable that you loved those times too. Make her want you back and get in the game !

3) sang ex avoids tying up loose ends

kalau sang ex tinggalkan kamu for good, she is going to want to close the door on your relationship completely.

dia pasti tidak akan membenarkan any open ends that might linger, such as leaving her belongings at your house.

kalau dia setakat terlupa nak angkut berus kain masa korang break up haritu, usah lah kau berangan . tetapi, kalau pakaian dia , underwear segala, buku buku sekolah, even a piece or 2 of furniture ditinggalkan with no effort to pick up those stuff

BERSIAP LAH!

itu tanda nya she is not totally finished with u just yet. she may come back to find u.

the reason behind this ? dia nak carik modal to commence for future communication ngan uol lah.

taktik basi tapi amat berkesan.

dia tinggalkan kamu dengan begitu sadis sekali, she knows u may go days / weeks/ months without speaking again. if she decides to change her mind, kaedah nak balik semula dengan kamu, BARANG BARANG dia yang tersadai kat rumah tu akan menjadi alasan for her to contact u, tanpa menjatuhkan air muka nya

Kau pulak , feeling cinta mati kat dia, selang sehari asyik mesej dia suh amik barang dia kat rumah yang berlambak macam pasar tani dah.

PERLU KE?

banyak sangat lah kan kredit kau. bak sini transfer kat ai , bley?

let her leave her things at your place for as long as she likes. tak perlu nak PAKSA dia mai rumah amek. kau saja jah nak buat kontek ngan dia kan?

never uols. if not, u are only ruining the chance of her getting back to u. when she is ready, she’ll do just that willingly

kau tak perlu desak

just sit back , relax and JUST ENJOY THE SHOWWWWWWW * mrasa tarik lagu lenka*

4) she starts getting affectionate toward u AGAIN

Kau ingat lagi kan, sehari selepas break up tuh, dah takde konsep ayang, yayang, baby, ke babi? awas. apa apa jelah panggilan manja kalian kan

tibe dari semak mana dia muncul, kirim sms bersayang sayang bagai . gulp.

if it is too sudden, it means one of two things:

a) to test the waters on getting back together with u

OR

b) just to get some straight up sex

sang ex yang masih berfikir nak ngedate ngan kamu will be unable to stop herself from throwing off physical signs of affection.

contohnya?

saja bergesel badan during conversation, asyik sentuh tangan kamu je, kiss u playfully, saja panggil kamu ’sayang’  atau macam macam lagi sikap ala nak seduce kamu gitu.

Know what these signs are, so you can identify and roll with them. play with her, be affectionate back, and see how little she resists you.

dia sentuh tangan kau, kau pun sentuh, sambil usap usap rambut dia ke?

over kan kau? jangan serakah sangat bolei?

light light sudah, jangan bikin dia benci kamu pulak. si horny ! <– tiber marah bersungguh!

jika dia sekadar nak hookup physically @ ngesex je ngan kamu , because she misses the great sex that she had with u that now she is deprived off?

what u NEED to do is to pat yourself at the back, kembangkan hidung seluas jagat raya

sebagai ketua komiti subjek L kamasutra, ai vangga ngan uols

she misses u sebab dah terbiasa dengan bau kamu, gaya kamu, the closeness; memang susah nak resist these .

senggama mungkin boleh menyatukan kalian semula. however it wont work well selagi the real factor that tear u two apart has not been resolved.

jangan begitu yakin berjalan di wangsa maju dengan mendabik dada selepas kamu berjaya senggama dengan dia,  after the break up.

mungkin she was only in it for the night

prepare yourself for the fact that you might just be nothing more than a booty call. Be sure you can handle it.

However in most situations sex with an ex gf is almost always a sign that she wants to repair or renew the relationship.

No matter what level of affection your ex shows you, try to listen to what she’s saying. Be honest with yourself, and don’t let anything become something it’s not.

But if the signs are definitely there? Don’t ignore them. Going with the flow of her own moves is an integral part of getting your girlfriend back.

kau ingat ada 4 signs je ke?

mrasa tunggu entry akan datang.

but now you are half way in getting your ex back dengan penuh gaya !

blah !